Victor William Butchin 2018

OBITUARY Victor William Butchin February 7, 1928 – August 27, 2018 Victor William Butchin was born on February 7, 1928 and passed away on August 27, 2018 Send Flowers Show Your Support Share Obituary share to facebook share by email share link Receive Notifications

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  1. Dear Ceil, If their was away to take your heartbreak away I would certaintly do so. Dad, was blessed to have you as well you too have my dad. He loved you with all he had. To your entire family I’m sorry for your loss yet, I need to say thank you for loving my dad. Aunt Erma, Uncle Bob, As daddy’s number one & only sister their are no words for your sorrow filled with tears. Daddy, loved you both so very much. From your great laugh to Uncle Bob’s jokes and dry sence of humor. To Alissa, Lon, dad loved you both from Alissia’s carrot cake to Lon telling jokes filled with laughter. My brother Alan, although a life well lived my you have daddy’s dry sence of humor and his handsome looks. Daddy, was so proud of you, grandson Dylan, Gab, Stephanie, daughter inlaw. To my sister Judy, dad and I would laugh the olden golden times of how you used orange juice cans to set your hair to have that perfect look within your beautiful dark hair. Yes, you made all laugh as you also have daddy’s sence of humor. Dad, was so proud of you, grandson Brad, son inlaw John.
    My sister Jean, know this daddy loved equally not one over the other. I know he loved you as well his grandchildren Michele, Shari, and within his heart filled with gold yes he loved his great grandchildren in silence that was daddys way. To end as your daughter who you named Andrea lyn. It was and honor a blessing to have you for whom I called Dad, Daddy, Da Da,! As we laughed while on the phone and upon hanging up it was you who would say ok on the count of three & we would start laughing all over again with Love you lots, & me no I Love you lots, of course it was on 1.2.3. ok Myrtle & you Da Da got the last one in. Dad, you were endearing sweet kind & you showed that one could rise up to any challange & you did. So as I reflect with tears heartbreak of my own trying to see how or where too put all my grief, what is helping knowing God took our dad directly into Heaven. I say Sweet Dreams Daddy & we will all see each other again! A LOVING HUSBAND, DAD, BROTHER, BROTHER INLAW, UNCLE, GRANDFATHER GREAT GRANDFATHER. A LIFE WELL LIVED!!! Love you, lots lots & more. Your loving daughter Andrea Lyn Butchin! Wrote: 09/20/2018

    • “Happy Fathers Day” Dad, everyday is and always will be Fathers Day having you as our dad a blessing from above. I couldn’t write dad until now although I tried as their were many tears of my own grief trying so to understand if you were sick, pain, which continues to hurt my heart soul living still in the unknown. Yes, many would say why would I need to know? My answer too all knowing is better then knowing nothing at all also, so to help me with a grieving process I have not been able todo. Dad, you know me I’m not one to forget that has never been the way of my heart. As your daughter I continue to pray for Ceil not only as your best friend and loving wife, how difficult missing first Thanksgiving Christmas New Year Birthday without you. I have written to Ceil yet to date have not been able to put and end I cry then put aside for a while. I tried to finish so to send for Ceil’s own Birthday yet failed again. One thing I do know how you have watched me try so to write over and over as I speak with you every minute of my day into night alongside of your picture framed by my side. I have no regret dad when it comes to both my decision was a sound one to protect and I did just that. At times I ask in the here and now at a young age of #17 maybe I shouldn’t have. Parents are to protect their children however, being young one grows scared doesn’t know what todo within a terrible situation. I asked a professional my question was should I have done so? His answer was no since I had done so my entire life what purpose would it serve now and I agreed. To end oppose to listening and hearing from two it would have been conducive for both to have heard my voice not too silence it. So, in lieu the “Love” I have for you dad is strong far wide and it always will be no one person will ever take that away from me! I love you dad, daddy, dada. Your loving Daughter, Andrea L. Butchin.

  2. ” Time ” l didn’t know if their would be anything within my broken heart where upon l could write a single word without breaking down. Our dad has been away from our sight a mere five months and eleven days, yet it feels as though a lifetime for me. l look outside in the dark of night looking for a horizon to view a shadow of my loving sweet dad. As I stand with eyes shut tight their is dads smile, laugh, and I cry then I speak. I can hear my dad with his dry sense of humor and feel the warmth of his hug and kisses in kind. As his daughter I stand every minute hour, day after day trying to find some closure yet it’s completely unknown as my own spirit, soul, has gone with you.
    I tried so hard dad too write as your Birthday was a hour ago yet I couldn’t see through my own tears for us. I have prayed for those who did not rise and allowed me to continue to let me stand in the unknown so to mourn. I love you so lots,, lots ,lots ,and more. I will adore you until my time! Love you, Always and more dad. Your loving daughter, Andrea Lyn Butchin” Happy Birthday” Da Da….

  3. “Spring” Dad, I have tried so hard to move on so too griev and know matter how hard nothing mere shy of tears. I hear your voice as though we spoke yesterday, with your funny laugh and a beautiful sense of humor. You and I on the phone speaking of flowers in bloom or me telling you, gee dad I didn’t think what I planted a year ago would have sprung. We would laugh as you told me myrtle just say a prayer over them! My answer da da they need more then prayers and we giggled all over again. Dad, those sweet simple talks so worth their weight in gold yet I’m left standing still to wonder on how to morn and grief. I have missed you for so long, in the here and now it breaks my heart every moment of my God given day! I love you so dad with all I have within my heart, and you will hear me all day into night.I will never stop nor stay slient as I know your in Heaven hearing your loving daughters voice. I love you da da, lots lots & more!! Love you, Always & Forever. Andrea, your loving daughter. 4/03/19 8:26 PM

  4. Dad, it’s me myrtle haven’t been able to sleep 5:40am I know you can see me since all I do is speak too you and with your handsome picture in hand. Dad, some people have told me write for as long as it helps with griefing no it doesn’t I cry everyday over you.
    I don’t know what is going on dad, try so hard to end Ceil’s letter and can’t as though if I do then all is final for me that is all i can up with as to why. I still wonder if you ever read my “Love letter” for you on your #90th Birthday also, all the beauty I wrote too both of you it haunts my inner soul not knowing. Dad, i need to tell you some things although I’ve spoken through God for you. I lived a pretend life it was incidsides for me but, I was scared confused and at #17 one didn’t know how to handle so I allowed all too stay within. Their were only two who knew Gary, Jean, but I couldn’t get all of it out even to my own loving sister yet I was blessed to have her as I felt protected. Dad, I’m apart of the me too movement yes he did it too me! On three occasions and almost a forth however their was noway I had a piece of wood and he walked out. I grabbed as many clothes ran to jean. I lived between Jean and Gary, until Alan came back from college my mindset was if he tried todo it again Alan would know and Pandora’s Box would be opened! I wanted to tell you a trillion times but, my mind went back to how awful it was for you, Alan, me, and our family after she left so I went into protective mode pushing all deep within my soul. I tried to get out dad, this went on for years I almost made it in 05 but, once again it failed. You, alway’s asked me why fifthteen years with Gary well he knew and was a protector for me. I had too protect your mind from all dad, I didn’t know what all would have done too you also if my friends found out I was young. When Alan, did come back and Dinners with all yes, I came out so to eat however once all would leave back into my room . I thanked God for my friends as they kept my mind busy away from thinking of ugly all day into night! Dad, you asked why all my graduations? As for 9th a few of my friends were not going and so many were I wanted too go but, protective mode once again to put you with mom and family so I made a decision not to cried over it figured this was my new life. Then on to Northeast going into 11th a strike alot of my friends were going to a school owned by my algebra teacher Harold Nerenberg, at a 100 00 a course I called mom and she went to meet with the school. I went there it was up the block from Northeast so small only three floors yet, class size was fifthteen so it was conducive so to learn oppose to thirty in a class. As of when both came in i was not good and if i would have seen you both your long weekend would have been ruined i couldn’t do that to you nor Ceil, no regret I protected a dad I loved so much and yes would do all over again yet, I sobbed you just didn’t know! In 2013 no dad I didn’t do intentionally however, as it turned out I was finely able to work on all that sat within myself from age #17 one has too learn how to deal with what I had endured as I’ve been told no you never get over being a me too girl rather how to move forward. I’m so sad you were told that init self took me back miles for both of you I’m so sorry. Dad, you now know some of what took place although I have been speaking with you in Heaven. In closing I learned if I were too sponsor as you had done over many years, I would state to tell their. Story it isn’t a fault of your own and their is help! My biggest mistake was coming back into a poor situation and that is my regret! I love you so much dad, your such a great man. Love always, dad daddy da da. Your loving daughter, Andrea L. Butchin

  5. Hi Da Da, I finished my letter to Ceil last night with many tears. I know you had to have helped me or could’nt do alone. I’m having such a hard time too me your still here what helps is speaking with you and being able to write as I have been doing. Although, leaving messages may cease which will break my spirit soul more then it already is. I can only hope pray my cards find Ceil I don’t know if she moved.since you left us.i tried to write all in the correct fashion for a better understanding as I have spoken with you in Heaven. I miss everyone dad it’s and awful feeling of constant loneliness yet all is broken. I love you dad so much it hurts it always did. I know life goes on and suppose to get easy with time maybe, I’m just not that type of person I don’t know. When I’m busy during my day their you are at night I talk away too you so, it must be me! I love you dad, love you lots lots & more! Your loving daughter, Andrea L. Butchin Xoxo

  6. Dad, I’m having such a difficult time with everything at night I sit to cry as I speak with you. I pray for answers to come my way it’s awful. Feeling alone yet the loneliness is a silent killer. I miss everyone dad although now broken but, I continue to pray for all too work so tobe ok. I sit alone in the dark of night asking myself how did I ever get here. Dad, I know you have watched over me with pen and pad at hand writing all my pros cons within our family unit we all made mistakes but my cons on the page are not any more then their own. I love everyone it hurts to no avail yet, I have noway of fixing all. I slip slide fall know matter what I do or try to say it goes on deaf ears. I’m proud of all three dad, why wouldn’t I be and yes I know just because I love doesn’t mean they have too love me back nor care. I think of Ceil everyday and Aunt Erma Uncle Bob I pray for their health, love, as I do for Jeannie Judy Alan. What helps me laugh is going back to many, many, years ago remember Judy, running and beating up guy’s that passed by as they said words too Alan & she broke one of the kids glasses he was in tears.Jeannie forget her she can’t fight and a car filled with guys driving by yelling out to Judy, hey do you need any help? Judy, screams do I look like I do she broke all her nails & tore her stockings no shoes “Fiesty’ little thing she was. And Jeannie, the nut she went out with who painted clown pictures or whatever they were hanging over her bed whoops, until a number was seen! And all four were paint by numbers boy was she mad that did him in bye bye, never too be seen again! Alan, you get his rupp mini bike together which I thought you were going to break on your own but you did it. Alan, speeds down the driveway WAM into side of the ogers car not bad however you had it out with her as she was screaming. You, ran back up with car wax & little scratch gone but you called her a sick Moran & Alan rode in penny park on the trails with hills! So, that helps me dad even Uncle Bob’s, famous joke Wood Eye oh my we all had tears of laughter & Aunt Erma’s infectious laugh! But, then I digress back to tears wondering how on earth my life ever got here. Your own words too me echo each & everyday, yes never to late but for me now yes a fault of my own I should have stepped forward years ago so for help. No pity dad, I’m just continuing with prayer! I love you so much dad for now & forever so as I pray for you & all please pray for me! Love you, always lots lots & more. Your loving daughter, Andrea L.Butchin P.S. Your famous words too me, Beeess a good girl! I will dad….I will Xoxo

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